Okay, Let me just start off by saying although it was my first cruise, it was by no means my first vacation.
I did a lot of research before our cruise, from the Internet and by asking a lot of questions to friends that I knew had been on cruises recently. I felt like I had a pretty good idea what to expect. Hopefully other people reading this can gain some insight as as they prepare for their cruise.
1. No, they don't feed you lobster (or crab, or ribeyes) every meal or every night. On our 5 night cruise I was offered lobster tail one night (it was good) and shrimp maybe two nights. Same with cheesecake. They had it--for sale.
There were four of us in one cabin with a window. We didn't expect a lot of room and we weren't disappointed. The room was clean, the bathroom was sufficient, and our steward cleaned the room like twice a day. Honestly, in a room that small, you only go there to sleep or change.