Besides incurring the wrath of her male traveling companion, who pointed out in gentlemanly fashion that he would have to wrestle with excess baggage from car or cab through airport terminals and beyond, she quickly tired of trying to cram her belongings into tiny closets and bureaus. To win the battle of the bulging bags, the now savvy seafarer follows her own "Gospel of Prudent Packing" which states: Thou shalt put into one's suitcase only that which will fit neatly in the allocated storage space without hogging every available nook and cranny for thyself.
Following that advice is getting easier these days because, for the most part, cruising has become much more of a casual vacation -- even on more formal lines. Plus, with airlines now charging to check bags (with extra fees for overweight luggage), it's just plain economical to pack light. But to do so, you need to have a good sense of what kind of clothing and accessories you're going to need on your vacation, so you don't pack your entire closet . . . just in case. If you're wondering what to bring on your next cruise, here are our guidelines for what you'll need to pack.
The Female Wardrobe
First Things First: Short shorts are only appropriate on the pool deck or while working out in the fitness center. You can stretch it by wearing them to lunch in the lido buffet ... but that's it. Bathing suits are even more limited and should be worn only at the pool (though attractive cover-ups are fine for lido lunching).
The Daytime Guide: Good bets for indoor activities include walking shorts, slacks, jeans, casual skirts and sundresses. Outdoors, of course, swimsuits and oh-so-casual shorts or jeans and T-shirt ensembles are de rigueur.
On Shore: Rules of taste vary; if you are heading off to a kayaking expedition or a snorkeling sail, the most casual of clothing is appropriate. If you're heading into town, opt for those items specified above in "Daytime Guide."
Evenings: Cruise ships assign daily dress codes -- casual, informal, resort casual, formal -- that take effect in public rooms and restaurants from 6 p.m. onward (daytime is always casual). Normally, on a seven-night trip, you can count on two formal nights, a couple of casual evenings and between one and four semiformal occasions. To find out the dress code on your next cruise, read our story, Cruise Line Dress Codes. For all but the most formal of evenings (and even on the more casual, upscale ships), resort casual is the common dress code. That means elegant attire, though not in the silk gown milieu. Think flowing cotton dresses or silky mix and match pants outfits that would be appropriate at a nice restaurant or a symphony concert on land.
The Male Wardrobe
First Things First: Consider khakis and a navy sport coat -- a can't-miss uniform when accompanied by everything from a polo shirt to (nice) T-shirt to an Oxford. You can wear this type of outfit just about anywhere but dinner on formal night. Also, unless you're hanging by the pool, some kind of shirt is, well, required.
The Daytime Guide: Shorts are pretty versatile (athletic versions for working out and the pool deck, not-quite-knee-length for indoor activities). Jeans and casual khakis work, too. T-shirts and sports shirts go everywhere.
On Shore: Again, going too casual (tank tops, scruffy jeans, any kind of athletic garb) is considered disrespectful in many ports of call. And let's face it: You'll generally be more warmly welcomed in restaurants and shops if you're dressed nicely. The only caveat for men is the same as for women: On active shore excursions or beach days, ultra-casual is just fine.
Evenings: You can pack a tuxedo -- hey, if the mood strikes you've got a much more elegant photo op -- but tuxes are increasingly being outnumbered by business suits on formal nights. On some ships you can rent a tuxedo. But for most folks, we'd recommend that you do pack at least a suit and tie because some onboard alternative restaurants are so elegant (such as those on Celebrity's ships) that you really will feel out of place without it. And don't forget the shoes to match! Otherwise, on non-formal nights the khaki uniform works well.
Sweaters and Jackets: Embrace the layered look. You will want a rain jacket and sweatshirt on a Caribbean or Hawaii cruise for those less-than-perfect island days. And Alaska cruisers have been known to need everything from bathing suits and short-sleeve tops to warm fleece jackets, hats and gloves; same goes for cruising round the Horn of South America. Rather than pack clothes for multiple temperatures, bring cardigans or jackets to wear over lighter layers if it gets cold.
Hats: Throw in a hat to protect against the sun or keep your ears warm during scenic glacier cruising, and remember your sunglasses as well. Consider headbands, bandanas and scarves for practical and style concerns.
Shoes: Ladies especially should try not to pack a suitcase full of shoes. Try to bring styles that can serve multiple purposes (such as sneakers that go from gym to sightseeing or comfy sandals that work as well by the pool as they do at a casual dinner). Color coordinate your formalwear so you only have to pack one pair of dress shoes.
Day Packs: Small backpacks or totes can be quite useful for carrying cameras, books, sunscreen, water bottles and other items around the ship or in port.
Electronics: Travelers and electronics seem to go hand in hand these days. You may want to bring a portable music player, camera, video camera, portable game player or book reader, alarm clock and/or white noise machine. If you bring your cell phone, check about foreign country and onboard roaming charges before you turn it on mid-cruise; if you bring a laptop, inquire about hefty Internet usage rates onboard before logging on. And since many cabins have limited electrical outlets, some folks bring extension cords and power strips.
Entertainment: On the lower-tech side of things, you'll want to bring books, magazines and puzzle books for sea or beach days -- you can't always count on the ship's library to have a comprehensive selection. Binoculars are a must for Alaska and other wildlife-heavy itineraries. If traveling with kids, consider inflatable water toys for the beach that can be deflated and packed easily. If you plan on going snorkeling in every port, you might consider bringing your own gear.
Beverages: Most cruise lines will let you bring soda and water onboard, saving you the expense of paying inflated onboard rates for nonalcoholic beverages. One warning about packing "liquor" -- cruise lines have increasingly cracked down on the practice (they'd rather you buy drinks at their bars) so consider yourself warned. Your bottle(s) may be confiscated on arrival depending on their individual policies. Bring along a Champagne corker if you have a penchant for bubbly in your stateroom but don't want to drink the whole bottle in one fell swoop
Toiletries and Necessities: The cruise ship should provide soap and shampoo at the very least (and often body lotion, conditioner and body wash), but if you're picky, pack your own. Same for hair dryers -- if you can't deal with the low wattage of in-cabin dryers, bring your favorite with you. Additional personal items to consider include any medications you will need and lots and lots of sunscreen if sailing in sunny climates.
Storage: Many experienced cruisers swear by over-the-door shoe bags for storing toiletries or keeping small items from getting lost in cramped cabin quarters. Many bring extra hangers on longer cruises to make sure every item that needs to be hung up, can be. If you plan on doing a lot of shopping in port, consider taking a foldable duffel that can be packed into your luggage at first and then filled up with souvenirs (or dirty laundry) and checked on the way home.
Looking for more packing tips? Check out these other packing resources:
Top 10 Cruise Packing Tips
Slideshow: 10 Must-Pack Items for New Cruisers
Interactive Packing List
Packing Advice from The Independent Traveler
--Updated by Erica Silverstein, Features Editor